Sunday, 25 October 2015

Celebrity stylist Jeremiah Ogbodo open advice for men

Celebrity stylist Jeremiah Ogbodo popularly known as Swanky Jerry wrote this piece on his IG page for men...

'Its crazy that many people with Afro hair, think the hair that they were born with is unpresentable. Social conditioning is a real problem. Whoever you are, however you were born, you were born beautiful. brother stop hating women that look like you! why is it whenever we get a bit of money, we forget where we came from and our whole circle becomes lighter. if you hate the sisters..you hate yourself. Many men are looking for lighter women, not because lighter women are more beautiful, but because they are trying to align themselves with Europeans standards of beauty.
The need for white validation is a really sad state of affairs. its not necessary, because even though there are still existing systems that support structure, based on white supremacy, things are different now. we can communicate to anybody anywhere in the world. use the resources you have to look at other ethnic groups and look at how they treat their women. 
They don't penalize them because of their shade of skin or because their hair grows naturally straight, curly or whatsoever.'
He further says that Fellas should stop watching porn and expecting women to live up to their fantasies. Porn isn't real, women are equal human beings and every woman you meet isnt going to have a body, hair to the floor and want to be tied up every night. ....if you want a porn star,marry one and you will realize that many pornstars have been abused , are depressed , and have drug/alcohol issues. 
Above all, he gave a short piece of advice to the opposite sex; sisters keep loving yourselves, your natural beauty is all that naturally beautiful men want to see.
I totally concur brother.

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